Ethan, aged eight, was a bundle of energy. He loved chasing butterflies in the backyard, building elaborate Lego structures, and wrestling with his older brother. But beneath the surface, Ethan harboured a secret struggle – Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD).
For Ethan’s parents, John and Sarah, the signs weren’t always obvious. Unlike some children with SPD who might be hypersensitive to touch, Ethan craved rough textures. He’d rub his hands on sandpaper and seek out hugs that felt almost like squeezes. However, loud noises were a constant source of distress. School canteens were his personal nightmare, and car rides with the radio on felt like torture as well as birthday parties.
The real challenge came with communication. Ethan often struggled to understand spoken instructions, particularly in noisy environments. He’d get frustrated easily during group activities and withdraw, leaving John and Sarah worried about his social development.
“We thought he might have trouble with hearing,” Sarah recalls. “But multiple ear tests came back normal.”
The lack of a clear diagnosis left John and Sarah feeling helpless. “It felt like we were constantly walking on eggshells,” John admits. “We didn’t know how to best support him.”